Astrology Secret: How to Make Each Venus Sign Break Up with You (or not)

Did you know that our love and break up styles are actually influenced by our Venus sign, and not our Sun signs? By knowing your partner’s Venus sign, you can make sure he or she will stay by your side or actually get them to bid farewell to you. Read the given list and description to know what you must (or must not) do to make them run away:

If your partner’s Venus is in Capricorn:

Show them that you spend money like crazy and that you are totally confused about your future. Also forget about etiquette and whine continuously about how pathetic and miserable your life is. These are the ultimate things that will compel your Venus in Capricorn lover to get away from you as soon as possible. Why? Because Venus in Capricorn people prefer partners who care about saving money, reputation and building a future. But they cannot take constant whining.

If your partner’s Venus is in Aquarius:

Get as romantic as possible towards them. Do not even think about making space.  Hug and kiss them every now and then. Be very predictable.  In fact, try coming up with a time table for everything you do. Its result will be your Venus in Aquarius partner falling out of love due to boredom and running towards the opposite direction.

If your partner’s Venus is in Pisces:

This is very easy. Apparently, Venus in Pisces is a follower. So whatever you will do will be followed by your partner. But you really have to make sure that the things you do change into a habit in your relationship.  Now do this, stop communicating with them every day and even if you do talk to them show no affection in your voice. Let them see that you are no more serious about the relationship.  Here your goal is to prove to them that you have lost interest in them. This will soon be picked up by your partner and thus your relationship with them will end.

If your partner’s Venus is in Aries:

Put your partner in the power struggle mode by letting them know that you are the one who will control the relationship.  No, you do not require declaring it. Just show it in your action. How? Do not listen to them. Instead enforce your favorite things onto them. Additionally, stay indoor and lazy all the time. Such things will totally suffocate your Venus in Aries lover and thus, they will go out to seek someone else.

If your partner’s Venus is in Taurus:

Start a drama every now and then. Also tell your Venus in Taurus lover that you want them to stay committed no matter what. Make sure that you emphasize it. The thing is that Venus in Taurus thinks twice before committing to someone who argues a lot. So doing it will make them end the relationship easily.

If your partner’s Venus is in Gemini:

Do not be inconsistent and unpredictable. Be very calm in the relationship and do not show interest in going out for an adventure. Stop keeping news about what is happening around the world. Such things will instantly make your Venus in Gemini partner lose interest in you.

If your partner’s Venus is in Cancer:

Tell them that you do not like their mother and that it would be better for the two of you to stay away from their family. Meanwhile, get very submissive. A Venus in Cancer person usually needs their partner to control the relationship. If they do not see it coming they might continue to stay.

If your partner’s Venus is in Leo:

Stop giving them attention. Tell them that they are not beautiful enough.  From time to time, your Venus in Leo might have told you how much the opposite sex craves for them. Next time when they mention it to you simply look disinterested. Let them hear the music of the crickets instead! Lastly, stop giving them sex. All this will not break the heart of your partner, but will find it hard to love you at all. Thus, they will end it all without any problem.

If your partner’s Venus is in Virgo:

Show them that you are flirty with the opposite sex. Stop washing your clothes. Do not brush your hair. Stay unclean. Hold their hand in public and try to go for public display of affection. If they criticize you let them know that you are not going to change yourself for them. And soon you will become history in their life.

If your partner’s Venus is in Libra:

Get very superficial. Stop paying on dates. Just be as frugal as possible. Tell them you ran out of money and that you really have no wish to make a bigger amount in the future. And even if you do have an ambition to do it never mention it to your Venus in Libra partner. In other words, do not make a display of your property and bank balance to them. Instead force them to buy you things. All this will not be taken lightly by the Venus in Libra lover. So they will put an end to the relationship.

If your partner’s Venus is in Scorpio:

No more of sexual talks with them. Be talkative. Let them know where you go. Show them that you are just another one from the crowd and that what you do is open secret. The Venus in Scorpio partner likes their lover to be surrounded with mystery. So you need to make sure that you are the opposite. This is going to look annoying for them. So they will not stay in relationship with you anymore.

If your partner’s Venus is in Sagittarius:

When they come to see you let them know that you will not go anywhere.  Also stop having fun dates with them. Do not laugh at their jokes. Show a dislike for entertainment. Just stop viewing television or going to movies. Be a boring intellectual person. Just read biographies of political people in front of them. This will get your Venus in Sagittarius lover break up with you within a few days.

source: http://scienceray.com

Sasstrology.com: The Taurus Shutdown

If there’s one word that can help you understand your Taurus man, it’s “survival.” Taurus is concerned with what what works for him and what makes his life run smoothly. No more, no less. He is inherently selfish; if you’re partnered with a Taurus man, the main reason is because he found a connection between your values and his values. He’s not interested in the challenge of something different. When he figures out what works for him, he sticks with it. These qualities also make him self-sufficient and internalized; he looks to himself (first) to see what works.

Once Taurus finds someone he can trust and relate to, it’s incredibly difficult for him to give that person up. Taurus does not enter into a relationship lightly, and he’s going to stick with his lover through thick and thin. He is not going to shut down at a moment’s notice, because Taurus changes slowly. Remember, he is fixated on his personal definition of security. It took a while for him to let you in, so it will take a while before he shuts you out.

But he can cut himself off from his partner. If you wake up one morning and that current of reassuring Taurus warmth is suddenly switched off, you’re just seeing the final results. Taurus is so internalized, he probably didn’t let on that he was unhappy. Or he may have denied that anything was wrong at all (he is ruled by Venus, a sign that’s not big on conflict). But his frustrations have to reach a boiling point, and when they do it’s probably too late. Once your Taurus man shuts down, he’s already made the decision to move on. The “shut down” mode means that he’s decided his current relationship/partner no longer matches his values, or meets his needs. And (keeping the theme of survival in mind) once that happens, he figures there’s no point in wasting time trying to resurrect things.

I’m not saying this behavior is fair. And not all Taurus men will act this way (you have to look at his entire chart to ascertain his relationship MO). But generally, this is how Taurus works. Now, what might have triggered his shut down? You cooking the wrong meal or saying the wrong thing may have been the final straw, but the issues would have built up over months, or even years. Perhaps he felt he couldn’t trust you anymore, or there was a major shift in your values/habits (so they no longer matched his). Also, tangible demonstrations of feelings are very important to Taurus; if these dry up, he’ll feel neglected.

There are no guarantees that you can keep any partner by your side (and some relationships are simply not meant to last). But there are some things you can do to encourage your Taurus man to stick around. First, just because he’s not complaining doesn’t mean that everything is ok. It can be easy to take the simple things for granted, because Taurus men are so reliable. But Taurus requires a steady stream of physical affection, fidelity and values that match his own. His needs are basic, but they require constant tending. You don’t have to get fancy, but you do have to be consistent. Changes (which are inevitable) should be introduced slowly, and it’s helpful to check in with him to see how he’s handling new routines, or if he’s even ok with them. Taurus can adapt to change, but he needs to do it in his own time.

So that’s the scoop on what might be behind a Taurus man’s retreat. He has basic needs that change very slowly (if they change at all). And as some of you have discovered, “basic” does not mean “easy.” But a relationship with a Taurus man is a long-term investment; put the effort in while things are going smoothly, and you’ll see some significant returns.

By Nadia Gilchrist (sasstrology.com)

Venus: The Soul-centered/Esoteric Ruler of Gemini

Venus, the Esoteric Ruler of Gemini, brings beauty, poise and graciousness to the somewhat unstable energies of Gemini. The concepts of ‘union of opposites’ and ‘divine brotherhood’, help us understand the awesome, cosmic qualities which are expressed through Venus. 

Venus esoterically is seen as ‘the alter ego’ of the Earth. She is the highest aspect of mind, unifying Mercury, Gemini’s orthodox ruler. Venus is quoted by initiate teachers as being the domain of ‘the lords of the flame’. She symbolises man’s highest aspirations to communicate with the gods. When man experiences divine unrest, he starts on a spiritual journey to search out his higher nature. Mercury acts as the terrestrial part of mind, Lower Manas, which revels in collecting facts and information. Mercury is the keyboard of a typewriter, providing old-fashioned means of communication. Venus, the embodiment of Higher Manas can be likened to the computer, with its sophisticated circuitry and keyboard. Access to higher communication is domain of Venus. 

Venus through Gemini is concerned with higher relationships. Esoteric Astrologers speak of establishing a link to the higher self, through meditation, study and keeping a spiritual diary. Each of these disciplines helps create the ‘antakarana’, a symbolic bridge to the higher self. This ‘stairway to heaven’ is constructed out of will, compassion and abstract thought. Light and consciousness focussed through the Ajna Chakra which Venus rules, enhances mans ability to have communion with the gods. 

The ‘rainbow bridge’ is also symbolised in the myth of The Dioscuri, Pollux and Castor. The twin gods, sons of Jupiter (in the guise of a swan) and Leda, were involved in the quest for the Golden Fleece. Castor, the mortal twin was killed; Pollux, the immortal one pleaded with Jupiter to let him accompany his brother into the infernal regions. His immortality denied him access, but due to his deep, brotherly love, Jupiter allowed Pollux to share Castors life on earth. Hence, out of the brothers’ fraternal love, he raised both of them into the heavens, transforming them into the twin stars of Gemini. 

Union and synthesis with the higher self, is a Venusian attribute. Man’s spiritual journey, the path of self-discovery is our ultimate aim. Higher mind understanding is an aspect of divinity, but the discriminating, analytical, concrete knowledge of lower mind is essential. The union of both creates in man a ‘Soul Infused Personality’, capable of accessing his divine essence. 

Venus is concerned with the ‘super gifted’; souls of great wisdom, who appear in one of a thousand individuals, incarnating on the planet. Their purpose is to enlighten, lead and heal all Mankind. Some, thrust into hostile environments, ‘pearls lost in the mud of matter’, are lost; others endure their karma and are recognised. These innovative geniuses need to be plucked out of their environments and prepared for their spiritual destiny. Some of our youth today fall into these categories; The ‘Indigo’ children may express super giftedness; others who are unrecognised, fall foul to behavioural problems and battle against society’s laws and orders. The unfortunate ones end up in institutions and even prison, serving life sentences. 

Hence Venus in the horoscope points to where super giftedness can be accessed. Its spiritualising qualities may be thwarted, until the personality is ready to embrace its higher self. The path of enlightenment is shared with Earth, the ruler of Sagittarius, the opposite polarity of Gemini. Venus, the alter ego of the Earth is spiritualising our planet at present. Her divine energies anchored through the super gifted, filter down to humanity, are preparing souls for their accent into the heaven states. 

The hieroglyph of Earth represents the spiritualising effect of Venus. The Venusian circle of spirit on top of the cross of matter, become one in the hieroglyph of the Earth. Earth is fast becoming a sacred planet, capable of establishing itself in the pantheon of the heavens as a true light. 

via burningground